I am seated at my desk as usual working and humming to this song by Jaydn Maria “Good Girls like Bad Boys”, quietly I cannot help but think how true this is, as much as we may want to disagree with modesty, it is still very true! (I Included). We always literally run away from the really nice guys and chase after the one guy that you wouldn’t take to your mama.
Isn’t it unfair that the nice guys always finish last? It is always the bad guy that wins, the rogues, rascals and very spoilt brats. Sometimes I tend to think that once you get a bad guy it is like a breath of fresh air, something out of the ordinary totally exciting. When ladies are with bad boys they tend to relax and not worry so much about, etiquette and being all lady-like they are purely themselves and not uptight.
On the other hand being with a nice guy is somewhat of a big responsibility at times, since they have this picture of a perfect girlfriend or even spouse! Most of the time the lady is trying so much to be what they want them (nice guy) to be rather than what they ought to be. A bad boy will outrightly tell you what they want from you however intimidating and annoying it is to us women, deep down we like it and find it rather cute (and don’t deny) that’s why being around them is much easier since you do not see a future with them the future with them is now…
This doesn’t mean that all the nice guys should start being jerks since we love bad boys. No! you should strike a balance between being a complete manipulative person and a harmless nice guy. Be cool and charming that will win the beauties. Bad boys can be so addictive, Right!, but a proper lady should know when to snap out of it because they are not really for keeps. Trust me I have examples top of my head...
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